第112章 第六卷 第十三章 托斯卡纳的春天

    ms-hansi-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;>了，谈恋爱少说得要个两年时间才好谈婚论嫁吧？就算现在一谈一个准，结婚也3<span style=fnt-family:宋体;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;

    ms-hansi-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;>了，要是这相亲又几经波折，你到底打算让爸妈等到什幺时候？我们岁数大了可带不动孙子。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>孟维酝酿了一下，复说：&ldqu;妈，我现在有对象了。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>他胆战心惊地等了好一会儿，他才看到老妈的文字复：&ldqu;什幺时候的事？能给妈看一下那姑娘的照片吗？&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;没多久，等我国了再跟你说。&rdqu;

    <span style=fnt-family:宋体;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;为什幺非要等国？就让爸妈看一下人家长什幺模样又不难。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;现在正处着呢，等我觉得适的时候再跟你们介绍。&rdqu;孟维已经觉得手心冒汗了。

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;儿子。&rdqu;老妈发了条音频过来，&ldqu;你现在这个年纪谈恋爱不再是玩玩、打发寂寞用的，说白了就是奔着结婚去，妈提醒你不要浪费时间做没指望的事情。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>不要浪费时间做没指望的事

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>最难过的时刻就是像现在这样，和妈妈隔着窗户纸互相试探，孟维没有十足地把握去面对捅破窗户纸的后果，他能做的只有尽量地把这个状态再往后拖一拖，尽量地抓紧做些铺垫和缓冲。

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>他把他的想法和欧隽坤分享，告诉他自己现在的无助和担忧。

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>欧隽坤在skype<span style=fnt-family:宋体;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>那头问他：&ldqu;你有多爱你爸妈？&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;非常爱，没他们就没有我。&rdqu;

    <span style=fnt-family:宋体;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;如果你爱他们就不要欺骗他们，告诉他们你最真实的自己。只要你自己做好准备，任何时候我都可以奉陪到底。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>孟维正如去年和欧隽坤商量出柜时那样，这次和欧隽坤在意大利过新年并没有刻意隐瞒爸妈，始终对欧隽坤和父母这边都示以坦荡的态度。

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;我现在最怕的是我爸妈不能接受，我妈已经在暗示我她不同意我们的事&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;这是两个问题，需要各个击破，所以我们要分开来看。首先，关于出柜，你只是在向他们陈述一个事实，不管他们接受与否，这就是一个连上帝都无法改变的客观事实。打个比方，你父母一直知道你吃饭用右手，而这次你只是告诉他们你的左手一样可以灵活地用筷子夹菜，而我也并非让你对父母撒谎说&lsqu;我的右手废了、现在只能用左手吃饭&rsqu;，所以我们向他们出柜只是告诉他们真实的自己，这是一次没有隐瞒，没有欺骗的交谈，道理就是这样简单。其次，关于父母是否同意我们在一起，我们要做好打持久战的准备，不急在一朝一夕。就我的分析来看，你父母那样爱你又不是腐朽老顽固，如果非要列举出一个他们不同意的理由，就是担心你不够幸福，只要接下来让他们看到你过得很幸福，他们自然会慢慢接受。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>听欧隽坤如此冷静分析，孟维感觉轻松许多，对父母亲的负罪感也少了几分，&ldqu;欧隽坤，假如不是因为你，我一定不会有那样的勇气。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>欧隽坤心中一动，&ldqu;我知道你一直很勇敢，但我从不介意你变得更勇敢一些。&rdqu;顿了顿挑眉道，&ldqu;为了我们。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>说话间孟维已经在纸上画出一幅简笔卡通画来，他笑眯眯地将这副小画展示到摄像头前给欧隽坤看，画上的土拨鼠先生和小鸟先生穿着拜仁的正红色场球衣球裤手拉着手站在一起，而它们空出的手都在比着胜利的V<span style=fnt-family:宋体;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;

    ms-hansi-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;>字，底下一排拜仁的热血精神LOGO<span style=fnt-family:宋体;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>，力透纸背：Mia San Mia<span style=fnt-family:宋体;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>！（We are wh we are!<span style=fnt-family:宋体;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

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